Note: This is kind of a copy/paste from what I wrote on Facebook today, inspired by a photo that I will also post here.
There is no forgiveness for the unrepentant, and one is also not repentant unless they truly change. http://www.luke173ministries.org/466809 This is why I have not forgiven my abuser, because even though he "apologized" many times, he was not truly sorry. He did not change in the slightest. In fact he lied under oath to God about what happened, saying "I don't remember any of that", and tried to keep me from getting what I needed to keep him away from me. If he had not lied, if he had been truly repentant, then maybe I could have forgiven him. But at this time I do not think it is possible for him to change, or even admit the truth.